Deliberately Create Consequences

Decide what you will do when you partner persists in behavior you have requested that s/he change. Tell your partner about your decision. The next time that behavior occurs, do what you said you would do — even if you are scared.   It’s easier to start this behavior when you need t » Read More
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When Should You Ask Someone Out on a Second Date?

Hi Evan, I went on a date with a wonderful girl on Friday, and it did go quite well. I noticed the past few days since she has looked at my profile online many times, but I actually was the one who thanked her a few days later for the nice evening. She said [...]Related posts:I Want to Take a Firs » Read More
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Do You Care What Others Think About Your Partner?

It was 2001. I was at the W Hotel bar in Westwood. And from across the spacious, dimly lit room, I saw her:My ex-girlfriend. Hottest woman I ever dated. Most tempestuous woman I ever dated. Yes, I held on to my perfect 10 for four months – four months of being left at restaurants, holiday [.. » Read More
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Should You Lie About Past Marriages?

Hi Evan, I have an unusual situation. I am divorced after a 15-year marriage and dating someone about 5 months now. It is starting to get serious. This guy knows a lot about me including a 6-year marriage prior to the recent long one. What he doesn’t know is that briefly, as a teenager, [... » Read More
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Searching For Lasting Love? Search the Best Online Dating Websites

A guest blog from Allison Schleck from onlinedatingsites.net  in this Dating Advice for Women Series! (Actually this post info is great for guys too!) You have made the decision to embark on an exciting adventure of dating online. There are hundreds of websites to choose from but which one can help » Read More
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Are you shy? You can still attract the person of your dreams!

A guest blog from Ashok from IndianDatingToday.com  in this Dating Advice for Women Series!Recent studies have shown that ninety percent of all communication is non-verbal.  Ninety percent!  So what you are NOT saying speaks volumes.  Now you probably have been in a situation before where you seen » Read More
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She Wants Him...Sort Of

Dear Terry,Firstly, thank you for the wonderful blog and for the time you're spending to make women take better choices in life. I read your blog religiously. (That doesn't mean on Christmas, Easter, etc; you know really religiously ! :-)Just reading your blog, I got answers without asking anyone f » Read More
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I Love You, and I Don't Want to Lose You

For the past six years, I've enjoyed discussing love and relationships with you. So, please follow me and Dating Advice (Almost) Daily to our new home:Dating Advice (Almost) DailySee you there! » Read More
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Is It OK to Flirt When You're in a Committed Relationship?

Filed under: Dating/Love, Barroom Debate Flirting consists of a whole host of behaviors, gestures and words, which can be subject to endless interpretations. For the purposes of this poll, however, let's just define "flirting" as an occasion when you act pleasantly toward a member of the ... Read m » Read More
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